my ex-fiance asked me out to dinner I said yes now I have a problem

[nudelinks]

It is so tempting to go out with a former boyfriend again. I did it once and it was great we had a good night, sex of course but in the morning we talked on th phone said this is not right for either of us or our present partners and that was the one and only time. It's like an old pair of shoes that you know and fit well.

Cheating is tempting but having morals is more important in life.

[viking]

If I tell my boyfriend he'll flip and throw a tantrum even break up with me . But I do want to see him, he was nice to me and I cheated on him and how we broke up.I am not looking to go back to him I do love my boyfriend and we do live together. How do I pull this off so he does not find out and I don't break my ex's heart not going. I already said I will and told him we are not getting back just a meet for dinner. Problem is every friday we go out to dinner with friends and I can not come up with a good reason for him to go so I can see my ex.

you must not care much for this guy you are seeing now

[AlexO]

you must not care much for this guy you are seeing now

Plus not have too much self-respect to cheat on your man. I was with a woman like that.

[HeidiHoe]

... when you are in a committed relationship it means being honest, truthful and not seeing other people on the side.

Now if you are in a relationship married or otherwise and tell your partner a head of time what you plan to do, and he or she is fine with it, then it is not cheating. But seeing an ex or other person without telling your current flame about it is plain and simple cheating. You can mince the words any which way you want, it is still cheating.

Yep. Cheating is more about the betrayal than it is about sex. Who gives a damn about sex, it's the knife in the back that's causing damage.

[bill]

If I tell my boyfriend he'll flip and throw a tantrum even break up with me . But I do want to see him, he was nice to me and I cheated on him and how we broke up.I am not looking to go back to him I do love my boyfriend and we do live together. How do I pull this off so he does not find out and I don't break my ex's heart not going. I already said I will and told him we are not getting back just a meet for dinner. Problem is every friday we go out to dinner with friends and I can not come up with a good reason for him to go so I can see my ex.

so ... how did the dinner go?

[TheButcher]

so ... how did the dinner go?

I am more curious how dessert went

[GRXlinks]

I have gone out with former girlfriends a few, and had casual sex with them more than once after breaking up. I was not always seeing someone when I did it.

[jag]

Some of the replies here really shock me.

[Mitch]

If I tell my boyfriend he'll flip and throw a tantrum even break up with me . But I do want to see him, he was nice to me and I cheated on him and how we broke up.I am not looking to go back to him I do love my boyfriend and we do live together. How do I pull this off so he does not find out and I don't break my ex's heart not going. I already said I will and told him we are not getting back just a meet for dinner. Problem is every friday we go out to dinner with friends and I can not come up with a good reason for him to go so I can see my ex.

You think any man want's to hear his girlfriend tell him she is going out with an ex?

[Timdaman]

Nothing wrong there if it was just to catch up on the past and did not involve sex, once it went to sex then that is cheating.

[deviantz]

Nothing wrong there if it was just to catch up on the past and did not involve sex, once it went to sex then that is cheating.

You can love a person and still have sex with others, the two are not mutually exclusive for christ sake.

[LuKenGas]

If you're going to lie and cheat on your boyfriend why stop at dinner or drinks, go the full monty have sex too !

[pussyhunter]

If you're going to lie and cheat on your boyfriend why stop at dinner or drinks, go the full monty have sex too !

So go all the way fuck it all up with your partner, great advice dude

[TheButcher]

If you're going to lie and cheat on your boyfriend why stop at dinner or drinks, go the full monty have sex too !

So go all the way fuck it all up with your partner, great advice dude

Amen

[DeSexGuide]

If I tell my boyfriend he'll flip and throw a tantrum even break up with me . But I do want to see him, he was nice to me and I cheated on him and how we broke up.I am not looking to go back to him I do love my boyfriend and we do live together. How do I pull this off so he does not find out and I don't break my ex's heart not going. I already said I will and told him we are not getting back just a meet for dinner. Problem is every friday we go out to dinner with friends and I can not come up with a good reason for him to go so I can see my ex.

I dated a bitch who pulled a similar stunt on me and when I found out she was seeing her so called "ex-boyfriend" again I told her to go fuck herself and get out the house.