my ex-fiance asked me out to dinner I said yes now I have a problem

[Lizza]

If I tell my boyfriend he'll flip and throw a tantrum even break up with me . But I do want to see him, he was nice to me and I cheated on him and how we broke up.I am not looking to go back to him I do love my boyfriend and we do live together. How do I pull this off so he does not find out and I don't break my ex's heart not going. I already said I will and told him we are not getting back just a meet for dinner. Problem is every friday we go out to dinner with friends and I can not come up with a good reason for him to go so I can see my ex.

[TheButcher]

Not to upset you but you are 100% wrong. Living with your boyfriend going to see an ex you were engaged to without telling him, plain simple wrong.That in my book is what i call cheating.


Why would you do it if you are happy with your current guy, turn the tables see how you would feel if the roles were reversed.

[fetishnews]

you are made of the same cloth as my former girlfriend.

[Brian]

I understand her I was with a cheater one time and when I found out she was out as fast as you can say "fuck me"

[ZR1]

Here we go next thread you'll start is how you broke up with your boy friend

[Sammy]

This I have to hear how it played out

[Colmike7]

Dangerous game...

[TheButcher]

This I have to hear how it played out

I have a good feeling I know how it will end, she'll cheat on her boyfriend, get away for it until it blows up, he'll dump her if he has any self respect, and she'll be back here crying how she regrets what she did. I have seen this here dozens of times over the years and in real life.

Not just female friends but male ones too, they think it is okay to go out with another person, not tell their current partner, even have sex and when caught for cheating it was all a misunderstanding. Shit does not work that way, when you are in a committed relationship it means being honest, truthful and not seeing other people on the side.

Now if you are in a relationship married or otherwise and tell your partner a head of time what you plan to do, and he or she is fine with it, then it is not cheating. But seeing an ex or other person without telling your current flame about it is plain and simple cheating. You can mince the words any which way you want, it is still cheating.

My final word on this

[bill]

nope ... threesome or cuckolding

will make good website content

[Lizza]

You are all old fashioned and so out of touch with reality. I to dinner with Max and we had a good time, no sex. I drew the line at sex, How can this be cheating. My boyfriend is not hurt because of it and knows nothing about it.

[TheButcher]

You are so vain how is what you did right and not hurting your boyfriend. You just said you cheated on him. So there was no sex how does that justify you meeting an ex-fiance for dinner not telling the guy okay. What comes next you meet this guy again have a romp in the back of his car or at a house but no penetration so it is not cheating.

Cheating is not about sex it is about trust, honesty and respect, you by your own words just let him down on all three counts. Actually you let yourself down not him.

Good luck, now I am really not going to comment on this. I am going to go cook and play Monopoly with my kids, have a great Saturday evening.

[badkitty]

If I tell my boyfriend he'll flip and throw a tantrum even break up with me . But I do want to see him, he was nice to me and I cheated on him and how we broke up.I am not looking to go back to him I do love my boyfriend and we do live together. How do I pull this off so he does not find out and I don't break my ex's heart not going. I already said I will and told him we are not getting back just a meet for dinner. Problem is every friday we go out to dinner with friends and I can not come up with a good reason for him to go so I can see my ex.

He could be trying to get back at you for cheating on him, think about this. Now you cheat on your boyfriend, break up and he feels even.

Think this angle too.

[nudelinks]

He could be trying to get back at you for cheating on him, think about this. Now you cheat on your boyfriend, break up and he feels even.

Think this angle too.

Man that is such a cool way to get even with n ex, fuck up her relationship by having her cheat on the guy. I have to keep this one in mind.

[XpressPete]

If I tell my boyfriend he'll flip and throw a tantrum even break up with me . But I do want to see him, he was nice to me and I cheated on him and how we broke up.I am not looking to go back to him I do love my boyfriend and we do live together. How do I pull this off so he does not find out and I don't break my ex's heart not going. I already said I will and told him we are not getting back just a meet for dinner. Problem is every friday we go out to dinner with friends and I can not come up with a good reason for him to go so I can see my ex.

You are exactly what I do not want in a girlfriend

[BarbaraCum]

If I tell my boyfriend he'll flip and throw a tantrum even break up with me . But I do want to see him, he was nice to me and I cheated on him and how we broke up.I am not looking to go back to him I do love my boyfriend and we do live together. How do I pull this off so he does not find out and I don't break my ex's heart not going. I already said I will and told him we are not getting back just a meet for dinner. Problem is every friday we go out to dinner with friends and I can not come up with a good reason for him to go so I can see my ex.

It is so tempting to go out with a former boyfriend again. I did it once and it was great we had a good night, sex of course but in the morning we talked on th phone said this is not right for either of us or our present partners and that was the one and only time. It's like an old pair of shoes that you know and fit well.