I went with my ex-girlfriend last night when she bought a new car

[fetishnews]

There has been another girlfriend after her and now the one I am with, if I tell my current woman it was just to buy a car she will flip. I just could not let the girl down when she called me to go with her. We went shopped for a car spent 4 hours together nothing sexual and once she bought it went for a drink and left. I had to be nice to her because I fucked up when I cheated on her and broke her heart.
How do I tell my girlfriend about this without her losing it and leaving me?

[Colmike7]

Do you have to tell her? I didn't tell people when I went out to help my weed guy buy a car.

A lot of times, a girl will ask her bf or an ex to go out with her for car things, either buying or repairs, because they don't want to be taken advantage of. That's pretty much all that was, so no reason for anyone to get mad.

[TheButcher]

Reverse the roles and think how you would react if she went out with an exboyfriend and and then for drinks.

[TheButcher]

I wanted to keep this part of my reply separate, I have been in your shoes before I got married and went with an ex to see condos, and was there when she made the offer, then counter offer, at the closing. In between we met up at a hotel a very nice hotel once a week on Saturday to re-enact some fond memories we had of our sex life

This went on for a couple of months until she told me we either get back or she has to stop seeing me, and by then I had broken up with my girlfriend but took too long to decide she moved on.

So I am no one to judge you for what you did, but I do think my previous post is important to take into consideration.

[fetishnews]

Colmike7 and Thebutcher.Fuck man if it's time to tell it the way it really is, here it is. She invited me to brunch on Sunday and I said yes, sort of confused where it is leading and think I might lose both of them in the end.

[Colmike7]

Be careful, man. If you like what you currently have, I'd cancel.

[TheButcher]

Colmike7 and Thebutcher.Fuck man if it's time to tell it the way it really is, here it is. She invited me to brunch on Sunday and I said yes, sort of confused where it is leading and think I might lose both of them in the end.

It's hard to reply if we don't have the whole picture. Okay as Mike said, just to be there for her so she is not taken advantage of, it's one thing. Going after she bought the car for a drink is okay if it was really platonic, but now that yo two are getting together for brunch that is not just being here to support her when she's buying a car. It depends what your goal is, if you want to keep your current girlfriend then leave it at what transpired. Meeting her again for the brunch or whatever are just not going to do it for your current relationship.

These things have an uncanny way of coming out over time, someone will see you two together or she might even open her mouth tell someone, then you are in 6 feet of shit lol.

Do what you want and good luck.

[TheButcher]

Be careful, man. If you like what you currently have, I'd cancel.

You said it in less words than me.

I agree.

[pokerking]

which one is better in bed go with her, problem solved.

[BrasSmonkey]

you hit the wrong button!!! this is not fucking facebook you fucking tool!!!

[TheButcher]

you hit the wrong button!!! this is not fucking facebook you fucking tool!!!

That was a gem of an answer lol

[Wm2man]

Oh boy this is not going to end well, how you know the ex is not playing you to fuck over your relationship with your GF.

[Slim]

Temptation plays with our better judgment but in the end we are human and have these thoughts and some times they play out.

[BarbaraCum]

You are cheating on your girlfriend so no need to try convince me you or any body else over the fact.

[Boner]

You are cheating on your girlfriend so no need to try convince me you or any body else over the fact.

When did he ask your permission?