when dating at what point do you tell her about your line of work

[Sneaky]

Tomorrow nite I am seeing this woman who according to my friend is a hot 44 year old with no baggage aka kids. So the 4 of us are going out and wondering if she asks do I tell her I run adult sites or let that for another time. Last few dates I mentioned my line of work seemed to not go well and there was no 2nd date.

[TheButcher]

When you get introduced say.

Hi I'm Sneaky and I run hardcore porn sites for a living. I look at photos of nude women very similar to you all day to write my blog posts!

Why waste the time going though the niceties all night, get it over with up front. Either she leaves or says something you leave


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[Colmike7]

Just say it, or just tell her that you're a web developer/affiliate marketer. No one has ever cared when I mention it.

[bill]

after you've had sex a couple of times

then she'll either like you and not care

or she'll want to go have sex with someone else and it doesn't matter

[AussieSpeedoGuy]

It is a fun part of our professions. To old friends I say I'm a computer need and deal with online finance. Can ramble about international tax stuff long enough for people to get bored and change the topic.

I was at dinner one night in San Few with a good friend who knows about my business and his wife brought a date for me. Date asks what I do for a living and I was about to give my usual vanilla spiel when my mate pipes up and says "Dave runs gay open sites."

Turned out to be super fun, date was intrigued. Wouldn't work for every audience but I have used that approach a few times since.

Dave

[shoopa]

First things first need to go on a date to get to that question, times are not what they used to be with this limited dating scene right now.

[AlexO]

It usually comes up on the first date, most women have not cared what I do as long as I take time out to nice places and spend money.

[bbwlover]

It comes out in casual convo on the first meet

[killah]

If you are ashamed of the work you do then you are insecure not her, I tell them when they ask. It is a topic that come sup first time I meet a woman on a date.

[cimage]

what do you peeps talk with a date, it is normal to ask what you do, what your hobbies are......

[Jessup]

When she asks

[Romie]

When she asks

You beat me to it

[urbanlegend]

The reaction most women give is. Has it made you want more sex.
I reply YES

[TheButcher]

The reaction most women give is. Has it made you want more sex.
I reply YES

Is that when they say bye or say let's go back to my place

[blingman]

If she can not take it on the first date why ask her for a 2nd one