for the women here; have you ever asked a guy out
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plumpprincessxxx
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for the women here; have you ever asked a guy out
There is this guy at the gas station I quite like, over the past few weeks I go there more often just to see him, I go in get my gas, later on I go buy smokes, next day I go get my milk and bread..........just to see him. We usually end up talking for 5-10 minutes and I leave. I think he likes me as much as I like him, but he's not making the move. How would you feel if a woman asked you out for a drink?
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A. Not a woman.
B. Never asked a guy out.
C. I've asked plenty of women out in my day.
But what do you have to lose, if you think he likes you then pull the trigger say something like.
"Hey Jack I'd love to stay talk more about this, its always nice talking to you but I have to run or else I will be late to work. How about we finish this conversation later at Starbucks when we both finish our work."
I've used a similar line with women when I was dating a few hundred years ago. Some times it worked out some times they turned me down.
B. Never asked a guy out.
C. I've asked plenty of women out in my day.
But what do you have to lose, if you think he likes you then pull the trigger say something like.
"Hey Jack I'd love to stay talk more about this, its always nice talking to you but I have to run or else I will be late to work. How about we finish this conversation later at Starbucks when we both finish our work."
I've used a similar line with women when I was dating a few hundred years ago. Some times it worked out some times they turned me down.
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You should see if he wants to get coffee or lunch and talk. A lot of times, guys will really want to ask a girl out, but won't if he's at work for a couple reasons. 
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this is the 21st century --- you can ask anyone you want out
you're not in high school any more
do it ... or you'll regret it later
it could work out ... it might not
nothing ventured, nothing gained
life begins outside your comfort zone ... so get uncomfortable and ask to see his penis
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you're not in high school any more
do it ... or you'll regret it later
it could work out ... it might not
nothing ventured, nothing gained
life begins outside your comfort zone ... so get uncomfortable and ask to see his penis
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[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jZ2wo901j5I[/youtube]
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I could not have said it better myself.bill wrote: ↑January 20th, 2020, 3:44 pmthis is the 21st century --- you can ask anyone you want out
you're not in high school any more
do it ... or you'll regret it later
it could work out ... it might not
nothing ventured, nothing gained
life begins outside your comfort zone ... so get uncomfortable and ask to see his penis
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plumpprincessxxx
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sort of he is still living with his girlfriend and baby in the same house but only for practical reasons, they are not an entity any more.
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Jesus the guy is living at home with his girlfriend and child and you want to date him, he sounds like a winner. What's next when you two hit it off and he invites you back to his place. First of all he needs to do the right thing for the child before having another one. Plus take care of his girlfriend or exgirlfriend, support them, make sure they have a place to live and food to eat, be a father to the kid. Then worry about banging some other chick, having kids is not the same as buying stuffed animal at Christmas for someone, it is a life long responsibility.plumpprincessxxx wrote: ↑January 21st, 2020, 11:12 amsort of he is still living with his girlfriend and baby in the same house but only for practical reasons, they are not an entity any more.
My 2 cents.
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so your standards for men, start with they give you attention and end at they aave job, even if it is at a gas station?
If you were my daughter and told me this story, first I would say, STOP SMOKING WTF! ARE YOU STUPID!
Then I would say, a gas station attendant really!!!! Then I would say, "He already has proven how responsible he is with sex, is that what you want in a man?"
This guy sounds like he might be trying to do what is best for his child. Even if it means living with someone that is NOT his soulmate. He, most likely, does not need a distraction from the most important responsibility a man will ever have. Raising his child.
If you were my daughter and told me this story, first I would say, STOP SMOKING WTF! ARE YOU STUPID!
Then I would say, a gas station attendant really!!!! Then I would say, "He already has proven how responsible he is with sex, is that what you want in a man?"
This guy sounds like he might be trying to do what is best for his child. Even if it means living with someone that is NOT his soulmate. He, most likely, does not need a distraction from the most important responsibility a man will ever have. Raising his child.
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Best answergotonudecom wrote: ↑January 21st, 2020, 3:40 pmso your standards for men, start with they give you attention and end at they aave job, even if it is at a gas station?
If you were my daughter and told me this story, first I would say, STOP SMOKING WTF! ARE YOU STUPID!
Then I would say, a gas station attendant really!!!! Then I would say, "He already has proven how responsible he is with sex, is that what you want in a man?"
This guy sounds like he might be trying to do what is best for his child. Even if it means living with someone that is NOT his soulmate. He, most likely, does not need a distraction from the most important responsibility a man will ever have. Raising his child.
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(Not to be taken the wrong way) but if a woman asks me out the first thought that would cross my mind is, I am getting pussy tonight without having to try for it 
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fantastico wrote: ↑January 24th, 2020, 9:01 am(Not to be taken the wrong way) but if a woman asks me out the first thought that would cross my mind is, I am getting pussy tonight without having to try for it![]()
ME TOO!
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Obvious to me men and women see this different.