25% women afraid to have sex:

[bill]

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/arch ... ex/592375/



(i'm guessing that this is one of the sadder consequences of watching the wrong porn videos)

[xxxman]

Jeezus sex should be a pleasure and simple act

[bill]

...... Instead, “this was clearly choking that no one had talked about it and it got sprung on somebody,” she said. Many sexual-assault cases among students at her university now center around nonconsensual choking. According to her research, 13 percent of sexually active girls ages 14 to 17 have already been choked.

The reason such young kids know about such a violent sexual act is likely porn, said Dan Savage, a sex columnist and the host of Savage Lovecast, who was also on the panel. And that’s not the only disturbing change that might be attributable to porn, added Kate Julian, a senior editor at The Atlantic and the author of a recent magazine cover story on sexual behavior among young people. For her story, she talked with many women who said their male partners seemed to be taking a cue from what they had seen in porn, pounding away or penetrating then anally when they weren’t ready.

Julian heard about a university health center that was seeing women with vulvar fissures, something that’s typically a sign of sexual assault. Except these women hadn’t been raped. “They just had been having sex that they didn’t desire,” Julian said. “They didn’t know it was supposed to feel different.”

Savage believes the reason porn is creeping into—and worsening—young peoples’ sex lives is that schools are failing to provide kids with sex education that’s porn-aware. Instead of learning that what they see in porn might not resemble real life, young people watch porn and come to believe that it’s what their partners want. Savage summarized the mind-set as, “I don’t want to do that, but that’s what I have to do because that’s what she expects from me.”

[Abby]

NOT ME. I like having sex

[bill]

NOT ME. I like having sex

definitely the best post of the gay

a great million dollar response

[STICK]

You are my type of woman Abby

[TheButcher]

I suppose one bad experience turns women off, just a guess.

[AlexO]

They need to get therapy and get over their fears or live a miserable sexless life.

[bill]

They need to get therapy and get over their fears or live a miserable sexless life.

i couldn't disagree more

it's the guys who need therapy

they need to become more considerate and less self-centured

if they can't give a girl an orgasm, they should be chemically castrated so they can't breed any more inepts

[chilli.domains]

Here is what i say. If you have a bad experience in life, let us say climbing a tree and falling down, the best thing you can do for yourself is to get up and try climb again. If you let one bad experience stop you from doing what it is you want to do, you are the failure.

[jag]

My first husband was verbally and physically abusive when he was high and during sex he would not stop asking for things done to him, he put me off sex for a long time.

[LISA_T]

Not in the 25% club

[bill]

My first husband was verbally and physically abusive when he was high and during sex he would not stop asking for things done to him, he put me off sex for a long time.

we are all glad you are well rid of him

[calista]

I can understand why

[bill]

Not in the 25% club

consider yourself lucky that none of your lovers were abusive or rough or dominating or demanding or self-centered or porn addicts