how do you feel about your gf going out

[JBX]

My woman after 7 months has found this group of friends from her work place, and the other offices they have where they go out every Friday night after work. I am not jealous but I last night when we were talking about what to do this weekend she said don't count me in on Friday I am going out. I asked her why don't the partners come along, everyone is paying for their own dinner, we can eat then dance. a little...it's not a company expense. She said we want to go out as co-workers.

This is a little strange, 19 people from 3 offices at the same company hanging out at a club where there is dinner and dancing after 11pm, none of them supposedly taking their significant others??????

You think I am over reacting or paranoid?

[Abby]

Every body wants some alone time from their partner, I know I do.

[born2bewild]

Have you told her nicely how you feel about it?

[yobilinks]

How would you feel about her telling you when and who you could go out with, I would not live with any body telling me what to do, take a chill pill man.

[bill]

you can always hire a private investigator for a few hours if you are concerned

[Kev]

I wish mine would go out once a week then I can call my fuck buddy lady over






Just a joke

[Colmike7]

One important thing in a relationship is for her to have her own friends and her own private time. If it becomes too frequent, then maybe have an honest discussion about it, but work friends going out together regularly is very common and none of them wants to bring their significant other along, that's just how it is..

[ispdn]

What makes you think she is cheating on you, I go out with my friends al the time, male and female it is not hing more than friendship.

[JPDomains]

I am happy for her when she goes out, plus I get to cook a nice steak or pork chop, when she's at home I can not do that any more, I posted about it in another thread just now, she has transformed into a vegan.

[TheButcher]

Boy I am glad I am married and settled down, I remember those dating days and the thoughts of "Is she cheating on me"

And yes some did and it was not nice.

[Colmike7]

So, I kind of feel bad because I'm 'the other guy' right now.. So, a friend and I have been fwb for a while now, but we both know it's just for fun. Then she started seeing someone and said we can't hook up anymore. But.. Next day I was in her bed... Not sure what to do...

[bestfreeporn]

Not the jealous person myself, if she wants to go out then I am ok with it as long as it is mutual and no cheating is going on.

[jag]

My hubby goes away for 2-4 days every 2-3 weeks for his work, but he gets up to no bad things. I trust him, it is all about knowing and trusting your partner. Without trust there is no relationship.

[xxxman]

You have to ask yourself how you feel, never mind what others think, obvious to me you are not happy with the situation.

[koster]

You have to ask yourself how you feel, never mind what others think, obvious to me you are not happy with the situation.

I think we know how he feels