How romantic is a prenup

[Ricks-Cams]

Not what a woman wants to hear after he proposes to her

I bet

[BHT]

You work hard for your money, why let half go because you made a bad decision dating someone woman.

[Franksdomains]

Money buys happiness and romance, romance does not buy money.

[calista]

I'll never agree to one but at my age I am not looking to get married.

[bestfreeporn]

Money buys a hot wife to put it bluntly

[razor]

Feelings put a side it is some thing two people need to discuss before it gets to the question of will you marry me. Not a question you ask after she says I will marry you.

My 2 cents

[gotonudecom]

Not what a woman wants to hear after he proposes to her

FIRST, you should have discussed the prenup before proposing.
Prenup has nothing to do with romance.

Second, why is anyone getting a marriage license these days.
Why the F@{% would you want to involve the government in your relationship, that is all a marriage license is.

Legal recognition: It makes the marriage valid under state law, granting rights and protections like spousal benefits, inheritance, tax filing status, hospital visitation, and divorce proceedings
Public record: It prevents bigamy, verifies age/consent, and tracks marital status for legal purposes (e.g., immigration, name changes).
State oversight: Ensures compliance with laws (e.g., no close relatives, both parties are of age and consenting).

Seems like the only reason you need a marriage license is to involve the government in your marriage.

The state isn’t “approving” love—it’s regulating a contract that affects property, children, taxes, and social systems. Without state involvement, there’d be no uniform way to prove or dissolve a marriage, leading to disputes over rights and obligations. Religious or personal ceremonies alone don’t carry legal weight unless paired with a license.

Marriage license = Getting a driver’s license (proves you’re legally allowed to drive).
Prenup = Buying car insurance before you drive (protects you if there’s an accident).

The license creates the marriage.
The prenup customizes the exit plan.
You need both if you want legal marriage + financial control.

There is no romantic reason to get a marriage license.

If you want the government involved in your romance, first research the point of a marriage license.
These are the steps to getting married to the government, LOL!
Sign the prenup (optional, but must be before marriage)
Get the marriage license (required to legally marry)
Have the ceremony (religious/personal)
File the signed license (makes marriage official)

I sure as f@{% am not getting married without a prenup.


In America, marriage licenses were created to enforce racial purity. Anti-miscegenation laws, look it up.

Now, all a marriage license is, is bureaucratic formalities for legal recognition, taxes, etc.

[gotonudecom]

WAKE UP, LOVE BIRDS — YOUR “ROMANTIC” WEDDING IS A GOVERNMENT SCAM

You think that "marriage license" is just a cute little form to make your love “official”?
WRONG.
It’s the state slapping a tracking number on your relationship — turning your soulmate bond into a government-regulated contract with default rules you never agreed to.

And doing it without a prenup?
That’s like signing a blank check to a stranger and calling it “forever.”
- No protection for your money
- No say in who gets what
- No shield for your kids from a prior life
Just blind trust in a system that profits when you split.

Let’s be real:
A marriage license isn’t romantic — it’s bureaucratic control.
A prenup isn’t cold — it’s clarity before chaos.
The government didn’t invent marriage — it hijacked it to tax, track, and divide.

Two people who truly plan to spend life together don’t need a license to prove it.
They need vows, trust, and mutual respect — not a state stamp that says:
"Now we own a piece of your future."

Skip the license. Skip the prenup. Just commit.
If the state wants in on your love, tell them to get in line behind your ex.

Currently divorcing — can confirm: the system doesn’t care about your love story. Only your assets.

[greatpornlinks]

follow up on what gotonudecom posted , why do you need a marriage license and certificate it seems a scam to me.

[Russ]

follow up on what gotonudecom posted , why do you need a marriage license and certificate it seems a scam to me.

Taxes, legal rights and inheritance are the 3 main reasons for a marriage certificate.

[TheButcher]

follow up on what gotonudecom posted , why do you need a marriage license and certificate it seems a scam to me.

Taxes, legal rights and inheritance are the 3 main reasons for a marriage certificate.

Bingo

[24alex]

You're all looking from a position where you are not a multi-millionaire.

[ezdoesitz]

The 50's were the decade of romance ever since things have gone down hill

[alsporn]

I'm not rich enough to worry about whether I want a prenup first off I need to find the woman of my life

[gotonudecom]

follow up on what gotonudecom posted , why do you need a marriage license and certificate it seems a scam to me.

Taxes, legal rights and inheritance are the 3 main reasons for a marriage certificate.

Divorce law.