why my gf won't have sex, can she have cancer, looking for serious replies

[BHT]

Okay so last night I was here venting in another thread about how my gf won't have sex with me fr 3 months. We were into foreplay, I'll say it as it was, I was trying to turn her on and after months she actually let me touch her and kiss her, them I caressed her breasts real lightly she seemed to be responding in any way or reciprocating, not that she was even touching me. The I went lower and 2 minutes later she told me "I can't do this it hurts." I asked he what hurts I am only toughing you lightly, she never answered so i said why push the issue.
So this morning before I left her place I said over coffee what went wrong for her last night, because the past 3 months the reasons she gave me why she would not have sex with me were; she does not appreciate my line of work,how he makes more than me at her job, how I work from home which is not a real job, how I am always drinking too much.....

Now this is serious not that I am a dork, but how can you have pain in both breasts and down under by just a light caress, I was not even close to penetrating her, I was kissing her breast and pussy area. Is this bull crap or what, I love her and want to help her if she has a medical problem, but all the excuses for not wanting to have sex and now this seems to me a lot of the same story. What you think.
God forbid, biting my tongue just asking okay, she has breast cancer in one breast but two of them?

How could lightly rubbing my finger on her pussy cause her pain, can she have cancer there too; it just don't make sense.

Just so I am clear she is not losing weight, has a great appetite, seems fine to me, and talks to he friends all the time when home or with me.

[TheButcher]

Which part of she does not want to have sex with you do you not get brotha. Quoting what you said " because the past 3 months the reasons she gave me why she would not have sex with me were "she does not appreciate my line of work,how he makes more than me at her job, how I work from home which is not a real job, how I am always drinking too much....."

All lame excuses if she loves you and has no medical issues or other stress in life. Since none of them seem to have registered with you now she's telling you "" she told me "I can't do this it hurts." I asked he what hurts I am only toughing you lightly, she never answered so i said why push the issue.""
wake up smell the roses, she tried everything else so her last story is it hurts, according to you.
Not to rub it in (no pun intended) if she did not answer your question then it is because she could not come up with a good enough line to give you.

Best to have her go see a doctor but as you posted the odds of her having some medical condition where both her boobs and vaginal area all hurt at "light touch" are not common.

Good luck to the both of you.

[HeidiHoe]

My question to her would be why are you with me? Are you supposed to change your ways to earn her affections? Is this the way you want to lead your life? Why not cut your losses and find someone that likes you for who you are instead of expecting you to change and conform? YOLO... you only live once!

I seriously doubt it's cancer. Sounds more like an attitude problem. A controlling bitch. My advise is run like hell, this shit does not get any better. No matter what you'll do, she's bound to find something else to criticize.

[AlexO]

Family problems, work troubles, life issues, health it can be any one of those or she just does not enjoy sex with you. Talk to her dude.

[Terry]

Take it from me since I have been there it's over for you too. Only time when you both realize and break up.

[BrasSmonkey]

she's fucking somebody else... take a day and follow her. please don't hurt her when you find the truth.

[Terry]

she's fucking somebody else... take a day and follow her. please don't hurt her when you find the truth.

100% what I went thru 2 years ago and when I caught her leaving her lovers apartment at 1am that day I came out my car, walked up to her, said you can go back in because I am not having you back and went home had a few smokes, locked the door called her sister in the morning said come take your sisters clothes because she is not stepping foot back into my place. That was it you never cheat behind my back and take me for the dumb guy.

[24alex]

If she is not open to discussing it with you have her talk to one of her friends, there can be a simple problem with her that she does not want to tell you, best of luck.

[badkitty]

Are you two getting any sex now?

[BraSSballs]

Okay so last night I was here venting in another thread about how my gf won't have sex with me fr 3 months. We were into foreplay, I'll say it as it was, I was trying to turn her on and after months she actually let me touch her and kiss her, them I caressed her breasts real lightly she seemed to be responding in any way or reciprocating, not that she was even touching me. The I went lower and 2 minutes later she told me "I can't do this it hurts." I asked he what hurts I am only toughing you lightly, she never answered so i said why push the issue.
So this morning before I left her place I said over coffee what went wrong for her last night, because the past 3 months the reasons she gave me why she would not have sex with me were; she does not appreciate my line of work,how he makes more than me at her job, how I work from home which is not a real job, how I am always drinking too much.....

Now this is serious not that I am a dork, but how can you have pain in both breasts and down under by just a light caress, I was not even close to penetrating her, I was kissing her breast and pussy area. Is this bull crap or what, I love her and want to help her if she has a medical problem, but all the excuses for not wanting to have sex and now this seems to me a lot of the same story. What you think.
God forbid, biting my tongue just asking okay, she has breast cancer in one breast but two of them?

How could lightly rubbing my finger on her pussy cause her pain, can she have cancer there too; it just don't make sense.

Just so I am clear she is not losing weight, has a great appetite, seems fine to me, and talks to he friends all the time when home or with me.

Listen to yourself and start thinking. She's getting better dick some place else.

[killah]

Talk it out in a nice calm setting maybe over a glass of wine , there is always one way to find out the facts, by taking.

[shoopa]

women who fall out of having sex have things going on in their head. Usually it is another person or stress, cancer is the last thing that I would say is her issues.

[jag]

Best of luck working it out hon

[calista]

Has she seen a doctor to find out if she is sick

[notty]

Is it time to seek some Viagra