My exfiance's father died last night , my girlfriend wants me to not go to his funeral

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My exfiance's father died last night , my girlfriend wants me to not go to his funeral

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Post by JustJoe » December 5th, 2024, 6:07 pm

I was engaged to her for 8 months, to tell the truth I cheated on her and she broke it off. I was drunk and she was out of town on a work seminar that weekend. Well her father died last night I read it on facebook, he had a heart attack, 69 years old. I told my girlfriend I should go to the funeral, she said no. What do you do in this situation?
Just call me Joe it is my name after all

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Post by TheButcher » December 5th, 2024, 6:53 pm

Stay away the past is gone, you messed up her family will very likely not want you there when you cheated on her. You will only mess things up with your current lady, if you want send a small (nothing huge that sticks out) bouquet of sympathy flowers with a simple message. I am sorry for your loss respectfully Joe. Don't turn a death into a drama with the ex's family or your present girlfriend.

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Post by jag » December 6th, 2024, 6:38 am

TheButcher wrote: ↑
December 5th, 2024, 6:53 pm
Stay away the past is gone, you messed up her family will very likely not want you there when you cheated on her. You will only mess things up with your current lady, if you want send a small (nothing huge that sticks out) bouquet of sympathy flowers with a simple message. I am sorry for your loss respectfully Joe. Don't turn a death into a drama with the ex's family or your present girlfriend.

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Post by BrentG » December 6th, 2024, 12:12 pm

You messed up why you have to go tell your girl friend, too late now.




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Post by calista » December 7th, 2024, 7:46 am

No woman wants her boyfriend seeing his ex.




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Post by AlexO » December 8th, 2024, 11:07 am

Weddings and funerals are where you meet women dude, go just don't tell her.
Give me celebrity porn :twisted:

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Post by gspotman » December 9th, 2024, 3:51 am

You never talk of an ex with your gf
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Post by jag » December 10th, 2024, 8:01 am

JustJoe wrote: ↑
December 5th, 2024, 6:07 pm
I was engaged to her for 8 months, to tell the truth I cheated on her and she broke it off. I was drunk and she was out of town on a work seminar that weekend. Well her father died last night I read it on facebook, he had a heart attack, 69 years old. I told my girlfriend I should go to the funeral, she said no. What do you do in this situation?
When is the funeral hon
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Post by JustJoe » December 10th, 2024, 11:03 pm

The funeral is this Sunday at 1pm and no I decided not to attend.
Just call me Joe it is my name after all

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Post by Emil » December 11th, 2024, 1:08 pm

JustJoe wrote: ↑
December 10th, 2024, 11:03 pm
The funeral is this Sunday at 1pm and no I decided not to attend.
Best move after you told the woman you're with about it.




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Post by yobilinks » December 12th, 2024, 10:24 am

JustJoe wrote: ↑
December 5th, 2024, 6:07 pm
I was engaged to her for 8 months, to tell the truth I cheated on her and she broke it off. I was drunk and she was out of town on a work seminar that weekend. Well her father died last night I read it on facebook, he had a heart attack, 69 years old. I told my girlfriend I should go to the funeral, she said no. What do you do in this situation?
You fucked up with her now again telling your present girlfriend.
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Post by snapsuch » December 13th, 2024, 9:26 am

JustJoe wrote: ↑
December 10th, 2024, 11:03 pm
The funeral is this Sunday at 1pm and no I decided not to attend.
It seems you wanted to go so now keep your mouth shut call her next week say I would like to meet you and pay my respects in person, always meet ex's at a bar or restaurant in a hotel. Then if you two want to have that one last sex you get a room.




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Post by TheButcher » December 14th, 2024, 8:12 am

snapsuch wrote: ↑
December 13th, 2024, 9:26 am
JustJoe wrote: ↑
December 10th, 2024, 11:03 pm
The funeral is this Sunday at 1pm and no I decided not to attend.
It seems you wanted to go so now keep your mouth shut call her next week say I would like to meet you and pay my respects in person, always meet ex's at a bar or restaurant in a hotel. Then if you two want to have that one last sex you get a room.

What I would have done in the past, I like the hotel bar idea :twisted: done that in my time before I got married.

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Post by 3ric » December 16th, 2024, 2:37 pm

snapsuch wrote: ↑
December 13th, 2024, 9:26 am
JustJoe wrote: ↑
December 10th, 2024, 11:03 pm
The funeral is this Sunday at 1pm and no I decided not to attend.
It seems you wanted to go so now keep your mouth shut call her next week say I would like to meet you and pay my respects in person, always meet ex's at a bar or restaurant in a hotel. Then if you two want to have that one last sex you get a room.

:twisted:




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Post by urbanlegend » December 17th, 2024, 12:27 pm

Get your priorities right doggg




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