divorce

[angryasshlyn]

Does your hubby know how you feel & what does he say

He knows
He wants counseling but I'm just done

If you're sure you're done go see a lawyer and find out what you're in for. Look for a free consultation and get an idea of what to expect. Make a list of questions, gather all your info (finances, etc) and be upfront so he can provide the most accurate info.

Don't discuss anything with hubby. If you are divorcing him, he is not your friend right now. He is your adversary.

I've been divorced twice, initiated and paid for both. I came out on the short end of the stick twice but it was fucking worth it. It'll be a cold day in hell before I ever marry again.

babes i'm so sorry to hear that, and i'm worried about that, being on the short end and paying when i don't have the $$$ to do so

[HeidiHoe]

He knows
He wants counseling but I'm just done

If you're sure you're done go see a lawyer and find out what you're in for. Look for a free consultation and get an idea of what to expect. Make a list of questions, gather all your info (finances, etc) and be upfront so he can provide the most accurate info.

Don't discuss anything with hubby. If you are divorcing him, he is not your friend right now. He is your adversary.

I've been divorced twice, initiated and paid for both. I came out on the short end of the stick twice but it was fucking worth it. It'll be a cold day in hell before I ever marry again.

babes i'm so sorry to hear that, and i'm worried about that, being on the short end and paying when i don't have the $$$ to do so

If you don't have kids and you're broke it can actually be an advantage. You can't squeeze blood from a turnip. Lol. Get up to snuff on divorce laws in your area (free consultation, web search, groups, library, etc). If you are broke a cheap lawyer should suffice but you'll need to keep your thumb on him. If hubby isn't an asshole, dissolution is usually cheaper and there used to be "do it yourself kits" available years ago (in the usa).

My 1st one was a dissolution, my 2nd was a divorce at large. Number 2 was a real number 2.

[angryasshlyn]

i've never heard of dissolution before, i'll have to look into that. i haven't contacted a lawyer yet, sort of seeing how things go the next few weeks, but i've been handed a few friends lawyer friends, trying to watch what i do, but also for that last part i don't care anymore. i'm doing me, at the mall, beach, home, etc lol

thank you for your advice, everything i've been told on here is very helpful

[Sebs]

Annulment is the undoing of a marriage as if it never happened.
Dissolution is the legal term for what we commonly call a divorce.

I learned this when my sister was trying to get an annulment but ended up with a dissolution "Divorce"

[angryasshlyn]

Annulment is the undoing of a marriage as if it never happened.
Dissolution is the legal term for what we commonly call a divorce.

I learned this when my sister was trying to get an annulment but ended up with a dissolution "Divorce"

Thank you!

[24alex]

JLo and Ben must have some big time lawyer fees if they decide to divorce

[angryasshlyn]

JLo and Ben must have some big time lawyer fees if they decide to divorce

Yeah no kidding!!

[HeidiHoe]

Annulment is the undoing of a marriage as if it never happened.
Dissolution is the legal term for what we commonly call a divorce.

I learned this when my sister was trying to get an annulment but ended up with a dissolution "Divorce"

A dissolution is a divorce where both parties are in agreement. It usually is a lot simpler and cheaper. If you start by filing for a dissolution and things fall apart and get ugly you can continue the proceedings as a full on divorce. That's in the USA anyways.

[Sebs]

Annulment is the undoing of a marriage as if it never happened.
Dissolution is the legal term for what we commonly call a divorce.

I learned this when my sister was trying to get an annulment but ended up with a dissolution "Divorce"

A dissolution is a divorce where both parties are in agreement. It usually is a lot simpler and cheaper. If you start by filing for a dissolution and things fall apart and get ugly you can continue the proceedings as a full on divorce. That's in the USA anyways.

I guess it is the same as a divorce if both parties agree , which is what they did in the end.
Yeh in Los Angeles you can still call it USA but it sure is starting to resemble a third world country with all the homeless encampments on the streets.

[cimage]

Call it what you wnat, breaking up whether married or living together sucks.
Take care of yourself angryaashlyn

[angryasshlyn]

Call it what you wnat, breaking up whether married or living together sucks.
Take care of yourself angryaashlyn

thank you

[jag]

When my lawyer called me to tell me that my divorce was final it qas the happiest day of my life.

[angryasshlyn]

When my lawyer called me to tell me that my divorce was final it qas the happiest day of my life.

Lol sorry don't mean to laugh, I've heard that a lot

[Gaming_Mike]

When my lawyer called me to tell me that my divorce was final it qas the happiest day of my life.

So your wedding day was not the happiest day of your life that is what they say \, a woman's wedding day is her happiest day of her life why they make men spend insane money for a lot of people to have a good old free fun.

[vblogger]

ashlyn you doing okay?