[RANT] I was so humiliated last night on a date

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[RANT] I was so humiliated last night on a date

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Post by badkitty » April 2nd, 2025, 10:17 am

llf4532 I got asked on a dinner date by a guy I met on Friday night at a club. He seemed very nice and I should have picked up on his cheap ass ways when he never offered to buy a drink at the club. So last night I went met him at this bar and grill in West LA, very nice place I have been there before. Food was good as usual, he asked if I wanted wine, I said sure a Cabernet Sauvignon with steak is what i like to drink. We talked it wasn't the greatest time I have had on a first date but it was okay, but it was okay he was polite and attentive. The bill comes and he tells the waiter to split it and split the bottle of red wine. WTF you cheap ass big shot talking about his cars and house on the beach....... what guy splits the bill on a first date and has the balls to want the date to pay for half the wine, I had a glass he had the rest of that fucking $74 bottle of wine.

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Post by TheButcher » April 2nd, 2025, 10:32 am

I have never let any woman I went out with pay for the meal, let alone split it, that is plain cheap.

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Post by BHT » April 2nd, 2025, 10:44 am

badkitty wrote: ↑
April 2nd, 2025, 10:17 am
llf4532 I got asked on a dinner date by a guy I met on Friday night at a club. He seemed very nice and I should have picked up on his cheap ass ways when he never offered to buy a drink at the club. So last night I went met him at this bar and grill in West LA, very nice place I have been there before. Food was good as usual, he asked if I wanted wine, I said sure a Cabernet Sauvignon with steak is what i like to drink. We talked it wasn't the greatest time I have had on a first date but it was okay, but it was okay he was polite and attentive. The bill comes and he tells the waiter to split it and split the bottle of red wine. WTF you cheap ass big shot talking about his cars and house on the beach....... what guy splits the bill on a first date and has the balls to want the date to pay for half the wine, I had a glass he had the rest of that fucking $74 bottle of wine.

Have a nice day llf4532
One date I took to dinner in 2022 asked me if I want to take the half bottle of wine home or if she could take it rofl. I bought dinner and she took the remains of her dinner and wine home, I knew this check was not for me and never called her again.




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Post by tacnet » April 2nd, 2025, 10:56 am

I'm old fashioned and will always pay but I do like the lady to offer to buy at least one round of drinks. I will usually say no and pay myself but it's nice to know that she offered.

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Post by TheButcher » April 2nd, 2025, 11:07 am

tacnet wrote: ↑
April 2nd, 2025, 10:56 am
I'm old fashioned and will always pay but I do like the lady to offer to buy at least one round of drinks. I will usually say no and pay myself but it's nice to know that she offered.
Amen when I was dating I appreciated the offer to buy and not to offend the date I would once in a while let her, but never expected or let her pay for the meals.

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Post by cimage » April 2nd, 2025, 7:28 pm

You can tell a lot about people when it comes to money, even if it is a dinner.
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Post by BrasSmonkey » April 2nd, 2025, 10:29 pm

that is the misconception! why does he need to pay your way? he is not your parent! imagine if a man tries that!
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Post by jag » April 3rd, 2025, 6:43 am

badkitty wrote: ↑
April 2nd, 2025, 10:17 am
llf4532 I got asked on a dinner date by a guy I met on Friday night at a club. He seemed very nice and I should have picked up on his cheap ass ways when he never offered to buy a drink at the club. So last night I went met him at this bar and grill in West LA, very nice place I have been there before. Food was good as usual, he asked if I wanted wine, I said sure a Cabernet Sauvignon with steak is what i like to drink. We talked it wasn't the greatest time I have had on a first date but it was okay, but it was okay he was polite and attentive. The bill comes and he tells the waiter to split it and split the bottle of red wine. WTF you cheap ass big shot talking about his cars and house on the beach....... what guy splits the bill on a first date and has the balls to want the date to pay for half the wine, I had a glass he had the rest of that fucking $74 bottle of wine.

Have a nice day llf4532
When you take your own wine to a restaurant I can see you tasking the rest back but I have not ever taken home a half empty bottle of wine served at the restaurant, that seems a little uncomfortable to me.
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Post by bestfreeporn » April 7th, 2025, 12:44 am

badkitty wrote: ↑
April 2nd, 2025, 10:17 am
llf4532 I got asked on a dinner date by a guy I met on Friday night at a club. He seemed very nice and I should have picked up on his cheap ass ways when he never offered to buy a drink at the club. So last night I went met him at this bar and grill in West LA, very nice place I have been there before. Food was good as usual, he asked if I wanted wine, I said sure a Cabernet Sauvignon with steak is what i like to drink. We talked it wasn't the greatest time I have had on a first date but it was okay, but it was okay he was polite and attentive. The bill comes and he tells the waiter to split it and split the bottle of red wine. WTF you cheap ass big shot talking about his cars and house on the beach....... what guy splits the bill on a first date and has the balls to want the date to pay for half the wine, I had a glass he had the rest of that fucking $74 bottle of wine.

Have a nice day llf4532
He seems to be a baller :lol:




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Post by T.B.W » April 8th, 2025, 6:30 am

First date to get a feel if you want to see the person again, it worked you discovered you did not want to see him again, it was a successful time in that respect, I have been on many first dates I knew in 5 minutes it was not going to go any where.




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Post by LuKenGas » April 9th, 2025, 3:10 pm

He's going to go one a lot more 1st dates and not get a 2nd one from women. :lol:




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Post by TheButcher » April 10th, 2025, 1:31 pm

T.B.W wrote: ↑
April 8th, 2025, 6:30 am
First date to get a feel if you want to see the person again, it worked you discovered you did not want to see him again, it was a successful time in that respect, I have been on many first dates I knew in 5 minutes it was not going to go any where.
When I was single a few hundred years ago I had first dates where I wished I was any where but there withing five minutes of meeting her.

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Post by pokerking » April 11th, 2025, 7:13 am

badkitty wrote: ↑
April 2nd, 2025, 10:17 am
llf4532 I got asked on a dinner date by a guy I met on Friday night at a club. He seemed very nice and I should have picked up on his cheap ass ways when he never offered to buy a drink at the club. So last night I went met him at this bar and grill in West LA, very nice place I have been there before. Food was good as usual, he asked if I wanted wine, I said sure a Cabernet Sauvignon with steak is what i like to drink. We talked it wasn't the greatest time I have had on a first date but it was okay, but it was okay he was polite and attentive. The bill comes and he tells the waiter to split it and split the bottle of red wine. WTF you cheap ass big shot talking about his cars and house on the beach....... what guy splits the bill on a first date and has the balls to want the date to pay for half the wine, I had a glass he had the rest of that fucking $74 bottle of wine.

Have a nice day llf4532
That is never kosher on a first date and to ask the cost of the wine to be split is a second big fuck up. First date you pay not let her pay even if she insists.




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Post by NSWDave » April 12th, 2025, 6:37 am

You're lucky he did not ask you to pay for his gas




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Post by Big MOE » April 13th, 2025, 8:55 am

badkitty wrote: ↑
April 2nd, 2025, 10:17 am
llf4532 I got asked on a dinner date by a guy I met on Friday night at a club. He seemed very nice and I should have picked up on his cheap ass ways when he never offered to buy a drink at the club. So last night I went met him at this bar and grill in West LA, very nice place I have been there before. Food was good as usual, he asked if I wanted wine, I said sure a Cabernet Sauvignon with steak is what i like to drink. We talked it wasn't the greatest time I have had on a first date but it was okay, but it was okay he was polite and attentive. The bill comes and he tells the waiter to split it and split the bottle of red wine. WTF you cheap ass big shot talking about his cars and house on the beach....... what guy splits the bill on a first date and has the balls to want the date to pay for half the wine, I had a glass he had the rest of that fucking $74 bottle of wine.

Have a nice day llf4532
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[RANT] I was so humiliated last night on a date

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