my boyfriend told me last night

[alina]

I need to lose 100lb and I very calmly said you need to get a bigger penis, but since neither of those are going to happen, you just lost me.

I broke up with him and am happy this morning.

You patch up with him?

[gotonudecom]

I need to lose 100lb and I very calmly said you need to get a bigger penis, but since neither of those are going to happen, you just lost me.
I broke up with him and am happy this morning.

If you partner will not speak openly to you about health issues or you will not speak to them about health issues, what type of relationship do you have?
One based on lies?

What you said to him is worse than what he said to you. You can control your weight, he can not control the size of his penis.

I expect most of you to attack me here. Don't care, you are in the wrong. If he was attempting to share and help you.
If he was just sick of your fat ass and was telling you the truth to be mean, then you did the correct thing.

How can we tell from your post what his intent was?

If your partner would not say that to you if were overweight, get another partner. what kinda partner does not share this concern with their partner?
If I were actively behaving detrimental to my health I would want to be told, by anyone.

how can you say it? well hopefully very carefully and with love. which I bet this guy was attempting to do and obviously it was not taken correctly.

I am embarrassed that you all are reacting this way. Overweight people need support, NOT support to stay overweight.
None of us know what actually was said and how it was meant.

BTW, my doctor says I am still obese and I lost almost 100lbs.
SO THIS IS COMING FROM an overweight PERSON WITH A SMALL DICK (compared to porn stars)

I am going to tell you like I tell all my overweight friends and my oldest daughter. (She is so overweight, makes me look small. She calls me crying about her overweight issues too often. I told her, at least stop calling me from the drive through line.)

I was once really overweight. I stopped putting the fork in my mouth and I am so much healthier and lighter and happier.
My doctor told me I was obese. I did not fire her or tell her how ugly she is. I did not attack her due to my lack of self confidence and negative self perception. I took the paid for comment very seriously and stopped putting the fork in my mouth. I even started a very lazy mans work out.

Stop putting the fork in your mouth! Get active and get healthy. If you're too unhealthy to start a program, then find a doctor to assist you.

I suggest you apologize and thank him for taking the chance to speak to you about your obvious issue.

Let us know how you feel in a week and then in a month.

To clarify, if he was being rude, then I would have told you what I told my daughter. DUMP his dumb ass, even if overweight, you are a great catch. Cause my overweight daughter is an awesome overweight person.

Obviously, I assume you are not happy with your weight or this statement would not have hurt you so much to remove someone that obviously cares about you from your life.

Your response to his most likely attempt to share his concern about your health seems shallow and was only an attempt to hurt him.
How sad! You most likely just chased someone away that actually cared for you.

Tired of hearing overweight people complaining about being overweight and the issues that come with being overweight and then attacking anyone that says they are overweight. I know the truth can hurt, but it is still the truth.
Now if you are a healthy overweight person, then ignore me please. However I don't know any healthy overweight people. I have many overweight friends and NONE of them are healthy. Few of them are NOT depressed due to their size and self image.







These two images were sent to my by my overweight wife to add to this post. Damn that girl is PHAT!

[plumpprincessxxx]

He called me on Saturday night asking what I was doing and if I had plans, I said yes I do and not with you, do not call me again.

[Sneaky]

He called me on Saturday night asking what I was doing and if I had plans, I said yes I do and not with you, do not call me again.

Proud of you gurl

[webcamhostess]

who needs a man like that in their life.

[gotonudecom]

who needs a man like that in their life.

Obviously several of you need a partner like that in your life.

Did you read all the posts here or just the ones that make you happy?

Bunch o SEXIST in here.

Reactionary opinions based on next to zero facts.

[BHT]

I need to lose 100lb and I very calmly said you need to get a bigger penis, but since neither of those are going to happen, you just lost me.

I broke up with him and am happy this morning.

ummm just how much do you weigh and how tall are you

[xlovecam]

at least refer him to a penis implant doctor

Turning and L in to a W

[Sebs]

at least refer him to a penis implant doctor

Turning and L in to a W

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