I have a crush on my girlfriend's best friend

[Terry]

This is embarrassing to admit to and I want to fuck this chick so bad, but I have a crush on my girlfriend's best friend, and her friend is flirting with me when she comes over to see my gf. PLUS her friend is with a guy for years and says she wants to meet up in private with me to talk about her failing relationship

[Colmike7]

Sounds like a trap..
Be honest to your gf first before pursuing anything if there's a chance that it might be ok, or don't do anything at all and be safe. Best advice I have.

[Colmike7]

Honestly if she wants to meet privately to talk about her failing relationship, be a bro and take his side of things and try to have her give him the benefit of the doubt and to keep trying. Wanting to fuck someone when both of you are in relationships is no reason to get in the way and ruin something that they have spent a long time building up for just a few minutes of fun, and possibly more problems afterwards..

[TheButcher]

Honestly if she wants to meet privately to talk about her failing relationship, be a bro and take his side of things and try to have her give him the benefit of the doubt and to keep trying. Wanting to fuck someone when both of you are in relationships is no reason to get in the way and ruin something that they have spent a long time building up for just a few minutes of fun, and possibly more problems afterwards..

Great words pf advice if I may say so plus I'll add, 3 other people will get hurt in the end.

I've been married for donkey's years and never regretted it, but temptation is another thing, if you are seriously committed to her, don't do this boss. Nothing but heart ache for 3 people plus you will come about from it.

Not talking out my ass, I was there long before I met my wife and did it a few times. It never works out for the best.

My 2 cents.

[HeidiHoe]

Your gf has a hell of a friend.... not. Perhaps you should be upfront with your gf about this situation and fill her in. If you don't this might come around and bite you in the ass whether you do anything or not. A friend like her can't be trusted by either of you.

[Terry]

I want her so bad, last nite I was thinking of her during sex, she is fucking hot, so frustrated.

[DeSexGuide]

I would go for it and hope your woman never finds out about it

[TheButcher]

Your gf has a hell of a friend.... not. Perhaps you should be upfront with your gf about this situation and fill her in. If you don't this might come around and bite you in the ass whether you do anything or not. A friend like her can't be trusted by either of you.

I hate to sound old fashioned or out of the times but I could not have said this better myself HeidiHoe, and please do not get me wrong, not saying you are old or anything.But who needs friends like that when you can have enemies. My other point would be, do you really want to start a relationship with a gal who is your current girflfriend's so called friend and she is cheating around. I mean it's not exactly the best start to a trusting long term relationship in my mind. But I am a little out of the whole dating scene right now after all these years with the same fire breathing dragon I love today as I did 26 years ago.

In my own defense I did cheat a few times before meeting her but never with friends or relatives of the woman I was with at the time, not that this is justification for my past actions, but I gave my word when I realized the dragon was the one and kept my word.

[HeidiHoe]

Your gf has a hell of a friend.... not. Perhaps you should be upfront with your gf about this situation and fill her in. If you don't this might come around and bite you in the ass whether you do anything or not. A friend like her can't be trusted by either of you.

I hate to sound old fashioned or out of the times but I could not have said this better myself HeidiHoe, and please do not get me wrong, not saying you are old or anything.But who needs friends like that when you can have enemies. My other point would be, do you really want to start a relationship with a gal who is your current girflfriend's so called friend and she is cheating around. I mean it's not exactly the best start to a trusting long term relationship in my mind. But I am a little out of the whole dating scene right now after all these years with the same fire breathing dragon I love today as I did 26 years ago.

In my own defense I did cheat a few times before meeting her but never with friends or relatives of the woman I was with at the time, not that this is justification for my past actions, but I gave my word when I realized the dragon was the one and kept my word.

But I am old... old as dirt

It doesn't matter how long you've been out of the dating game. The way I see it this comes down to basic values and trust. You're dealing with a person (gf's friend) that apparently lacks some basic moral values and should not be trusted by either of you.

As far as starting a relationship with a person like that... lmfao... yeah. A leopard doesn't change it's spots.

[BHT]

Glad to read there are still some people online who have morals, you know who you are

[Emil]

If you don;t go for it you'll be dwelling on it for a long time, just do it dog.

[alsporn]

Tough as it may seem I have had a similar experience, we went out on the side, had a few good dates and both of us in the end realized this was wrong and stopped seeing each other, neither of us let on what we had done.