11 ways to make your wife (or husband) happy

[LuKenGas]

Always cook for her. Never cheat, stay loyal.

I have been negligent in the cooking arena because I am not good at cooking. I have not cheated on her and proud of myself, hope this lasts.

[syrusjiujitsumaster]

Always cook for her. Never cheat, stay loyal.

I have been negligent in the cooking arena because I am not good at cooking. I have not cheated on her and proud of myself, hope this lasts.

Your a real man!!! Trust me!

[bbwlover]

Oral sex , give and receive it every couple is happy

[dom_trev]

My girlfriend knows what I enjoy, it's a good bj!!!!

And I know what she likes and make her smile!!!!

[TheButcher]

My girlfriend knows what I enjoy, it's a good bj!!!!

And I know what she likes and make her smile!!!!

Does that mean you two perform oral sex on each other or only what you two like

[bill]

i have a friend who is married to a good Catholic wife

and she refuses to give him oral sex

is that because it's a sin in the Catholic church ?????


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Getting Specific

Two books that offer specific directions about the Catholic Church’s teaching on oral sex are Christopher West’s Good News about Sex and Marriage: Answers to Your Honest Questions about Catholic Teaching (Ann Arbor, MI: Servant Publications, 2000) and Vincent Genovesi’s In Pursuit of Love: Catholic Morality and Human Sexuality (Collegeville, MN: The Liturgical Press, 1996).

Christopher West is a popularizer of the “Theology of the Body” based on Pope John Paul II’s book Love and Responsibility. He has written several books and articles on the subject, and in Good News About Sex , which is a practical summary of this theology, West offers some instances in which oral stimulation (stimulating genitals but not to the point of ejaculation) is perhaps acceptable within marriage:

Foreplay: If it is used in the act of foreplay that leads to sexual intercourse where the male climaxes into the female, then oral stimulation is certainly permissible for a couple to engage in within marriage.

The Big O: If a man was able to orgasm during sexual intercourse but his wife did not, he may bring his wife to orgasm after intercourse in whatever way he chooses (manual or oral stimulation). West writes, “Since it’s the male orgasm that’s inherently linked with the possibility of new life, the husband must never intentionally ejaculate outside of his wife’s vagina. Since the female orgasm, however, isn’t necessarily linked to the possibility of conception, so long as it takes place within the overall context of an act of intercourse, it need not, morally speaking, be during actual penetration.”

No substitutions, please: Oral sex or stimulation can never be used as a replacement for sexual intercourse, but oral stimulation can be used to lead a couple to vaginal intercourse. Pope Benedict also points couples towards discovering love within sex instead of settling for substitutions for the real thing, stating: “No mechanical technique can substitute the act of love that two married people exchange as a sign of a greater mystery.”

Men: No sex 4u: The reverse, however, is prohibited. A man’s orgasm is always tied to his fertility so therefore the church states that oral sex that would end with a male orgasm outside of sexual intercourse is not permissible.

Intimacy Over Arousal: Not every single sexual act, per se, need be procreative, but within a “sexual session,” if you will, there needs to be openness to procreative activity. So there can certainly be oral stimulation throughout sexual activity within marriage, but if one is using oral sex simply to avoid pregnancy yet achieve orgasms, then one is limiting their sexual union to merely give arousal rather than intimacy.
Premature ejaculation?: For something to be sinful there needs to be both intent and full knowledge of that intention to do evil. If one were to get very turned on and orgasm prematurely, that indeed is not a sinful act. Accidents happen. One needs to be mindful of their intention to sin.

[GabrielF]

I always do #1 and she kisses me says good morning, that is the best way to start out the day.

[badkitty]

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1. Wake up in the morning and give your wife a hug and a kiss. There is no better way to start. This gesture can sustain her throughout the day.

This will instantly irritate my partner, she would think I wanted some pussy

[TheButcher]

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1. Wake up in the morning and give your wife a hug and a kiss. There is no better way to start. This gesture can sustain her throughout the day.

This will instantly irritate my partner, she would think I wanted some pussy

Would she be right in that assumption

[fetishnews]

Money works well!

[JamesNet]

Money works well!

Bingo, it's just I am always the one handing out to her.